The Ultimate Guide to Cleaning Different Types of Sex Toys

Sex toys are an essential part of many people’s intimate lives, offering pleasure, exploration, and connection. However, to keep them safe and long-lasting, proper cleaning and maintenance are crucial. Different materials require different cleaning methods, and using the wrong technique can lead to bacterial growth, material degradation, or even health risks. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll walk you through the best practices for cleaning various types of sex toys so you can enjoy them safely and hygienically.

General Cleaning Rules for All Sex Toys

Regardless of the material or type of toy, some basic cleaning rules apply to all:

• Always clean your sex toys before and after each use. This prevents bacteria buildup and ensures they remain in optimal condition.

• Use warm water and mild, unscented soap unless the toy material requires something specific.

• Avoid harsh chemicals such as alcohol, acetone, or bleach, as they can break down the material and make the toy unsafe.

• If the toy is porous (like jelly, rubber, or Cyberskin), it is more likely to trap bacteria and should either be used with a condom or cleaned thoroughly after each use.

• Dry your toys completely before storing them to prevent mold or bacterial growth.

By following these simple rules, you can help extend the life of your sex toys while keeping them safe for regular use.

How to Clean Different Sex Toy Materials

1. Silicone Toys

Examples: dildos, vibrators, anal plugs and cock rings. Silicone is one of the most popular materials for sex toys because it is body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. Since it does not absorb fluids, bacteria cannot easily penetrate its surface.

Cleaning Method:

• Wash the toy thoroughly with warm water and mild soap after each use.

• For a deeper clean, boil the toy in water for 3-5 minutes (only if it’s non-motorized) to disinfect it completely.

• You can also clean it with a 10% bleach solution (1 part bleach to 9 parts water), but make sure to rinse it thoroughly afterward.

• If the toy is motorized or has electronic components, never submerge it in water. Instead, wipe it down with a damp cloth and a toy cleaner.

2. Cyberskin & Realistic Materials (TPE/TPR, UR3, Superskin)

Examples: Fleshlights, realistic dildos, pocket pussies, strokers. Cyberskin and other realistic materials are designed to feel as close to human skin as possible, but they are porous and require extra care.

Cleaning Method:

• Rinse the toy immediately after use with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap.

• Avoid harsh chemicals, as they can damage the delicate material.

• Pat the toy dry with a lint-free towel, then allow it to air dry completely before storing.

• To maintain the soft, lifelike texture, apply a light dusting of cornstarch or a renewing powder once the toy is completely dry.

3. Glass & Metal Toys

Examples: Glass dildos, stainless steel butt plugs, temperature-play wandsGlass and metal sex toys are completely non-porous, making them some of the easiest to clean and maintain.

Cleaning Method:

• Wash with warm water and soap after each use.

• For a thorough disinfection, boil in water for 5-10 minutes or clean them in the dishwasher (without detergent).

• You can also wipe them down with 70% isopropyl alcohol or a toy cleaner.

• If using a toy made of borosilicate glass (Pyrex) or stainless steel, they are safe for temperature play, but always check for cracks or damage before use.

4. Jelly & PVC Toys

Examples: Cheap dildos, vibrators, anal beads, textured strokers.

Jelly and PVC toys are often inexpensive, but they are porous, meaning bacteria can get trapped in the material over time. This makes them harder to clean thoroughly.

Cleaning Method:

• Wash with warm water and mild soap after every use.

• Since these materials cannot be fully sterilized, it is best to use a condom over the toy for added protection.

• Avoid sharing these toys unless covered with a fresh condom each time.

• Replace jelly or PVC toys more frequently, as they tend to degrade faster.

5. Latex & Rubber Toys

Examples: Latex dildos, rubber anal toys, BDSM gear.

Latex and rubber toys can be porous, making them similar to jelly toys in terms of bacterial risks.

Cleaning Method:

• Wash with warm water and gentle soap immediately after use.

• If you or your partner has a latex allergy, avoid these toys altogether.

• Store them in a cool, dry place, as latex can degrade quickly when exposed to heat or sunlight.

6. Wooden & Stone Toys

Examples: Polished stone dildos, wooden butt plugs.

Wooden and stone toys are typically sealed with a body-safe coating, making them non-porous and relatively easy to clean.

Cleaning Method:

• Wipe down with mild soap and warm water.

• Avoid soaking wooden toys in water, as this can damage the material.

• Use a natural, food-safe oil (like coconut or mineral oil) to keep wooden toys smooth and hydrated.

Additional Cleaning Tips & Best Practices

1. Waterproof vs. Non-Waterproof Toys

• Fully waterproof toys can be submerged in water for cleaning.

• Non-waterproof toys (such as some vibrators) should be cleaned with a damp cloth and toy cleaner to avoid damaging the motor.

2. Use a Dedicated Toy Cleaner

If you’re unsure whether soap is safe for your toy, using a toy-specific cleaner is a great alternative. These are formulated to be gentle while effectively removing bacteria.

3. Proper Storage

• Store each toy separately in a breathable storage bag or case to prevent material breakdown.

• Avoid keeping toys in direct sunlight or extreme temperatures.

4. Battery & Charging Safety

• If your toy runs on batteries, remove them before cleaning to prevent corrosion.

• If it is rechargeable, ensure the charging port is sealed before rinsing.

5. Consider Toy Material When Sharing

• Non-porous materials (silicone, glass, metal) can be shared if properly sanitized.

• Porous materials (jelly, rubber, Cyberskin) should not be shared unless covered with a condom.

By following these detailed cleaning and care instructions, you’ll extend the life of your sex toys while ensuring they remain safe and enjoyable to use. Keeping them clean isn’t just about hygiene—it’s about maintaining a pleasurable and worry-free experience. Happy playing—and happy cleaning! 😉